# (Poll) Money Matters with Mates: How Do You Handle the Bill Showdown? **URL:** \ **Category:** My Finance\ **Created:** [14 July 2023 10:43 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777 "2023-07-14T10:43:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![yagnesh01](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/yagnesh01/32/14597_2.png) [@yagnesh01](https://community.jupiter.money/u/yagnesh01)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 10:43 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/1 "2023-07-14T10:43:07Z")
Going out with friends is always fun! Something that each of us (hopefully) looks forward to and cherishes the time spent with them. However, when it comes to splitting of expenses, the conversations can range from “Don’t worry dude” to “Why is my share this much?”. ![5](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/uploads/jupiter/original/3X/8/c/8cf77af931072d8061b04a4204c88186891a3f0f.webp) ![Splitting The Bill](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/uploads/jupiter/original/3X/c/f/cf9d94131b7be5bff2d61a71d44a45375a5e2712.gif) So, how does the conversation turn out - _Poll ([view on site](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/1))_ Curious to know how you handle the bill when you’re out with your friends. Vote in our poll and share your experiences. Who knows we might learn a trick or two?! ---
**Author:** ![Shawnpinto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/shawnpinto/32/7656_2.png) [@Shawnpinto](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Shawnpinto)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 10:48 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/2 "2023-07-14T10:48:46Z")
_Cries in Splitwise_ 🥹 ---
**Author:** ![DigitaL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/digital/32/17085_2.png) [@DigitaL](https://community.jupiter.money/u/DigitaL)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 10:53 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/3 "2023-07-14T10:53:52Z")
Collecting huge headache 🙏 ---
**Author:** ![Aswin\_Benny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/aswin_benny/32/13053_2.png) [@Aswin\_Benny](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Aswin_Benny)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 11:29 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/4 "2023-07-14T11:29:53Z")
I would pay it upfront. Others will send their equal shares to me 😅. ---
**Author:** ![Devansh\_Bartwal](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/devansh_bartwal/32/13133_2.png) [@Devansh\_Bartwal](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Devansh_Bartwal)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 11:40 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/5 "2023-07-14T11:40:39Z")
Same, but it becomes a lil weird to ask people to pay their split. ---
**Author:** ![Aswin\_Benny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/aswin_benny/32/13053_2.png) [@Aswin\_Benny](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Aswin_Benny)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 11:46 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/6 "2023-07-14T11:46:37Z")
That is true. Loans are real relationship killers. ---
**Author:** ![Devansh\_Bartwal](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/devansh_bartwal/32/13133_2.png) [@Devansh\_Bartwal](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Devansh_Bartwal)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 11:49 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/7 "2023-07-14T11:49:23Z")
Indeed ---
**Author:** ![Shawnpinto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/shawnpinto/32/7656_2.png) [@Shawnpinto](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Shawnpinto)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 11:58 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/8 "2023-07-14T11:58:48Z")
Mostly settle all the payments at the end of the day, yup. ---
**Author:** ![yagnesh01](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/yagnesh01/32/14597_2.png) [@yagnesh01](https://community.jupiter.money/u/yagnesh01)\ **Post date:** [14 July 2023 12:55 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/9 "2023-07-14T12:55:24Z")
With my friends, the rule is simple - from the time we meet, one person spends and keeps tab and before we leave, everyone pays their share. We have been doing this since 21 years ---
**Author:** ![razack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/razack/32/23790_2.png) [@razack](https://community.jupiter.money/u/razack)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 05:31 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/10 "2023-07-15T05:31:40Z")
We typically follow another simple rule when dining out: T Dine out 1 - Friend A pays the full amount 😅 Dine out 2 - Friend B pays the full amount 😅 Dine out 3 - Friend C pays the full amount and this cycle or the pattern goes on… 😅 Fortunately, we usually order the same food items each time, hence the same prices, with the only variation being the choice of restaurant. 😁 ![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/uploads/jupiter/original/3X/b/3/b3922ec7058ea297ea168c8ab2cb5d9995c39589.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Shawnpinto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/shawnpinto/32/7656_2.png) [@Shawnpinto](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Shawnpinto)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 06:15 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/11 "2023-07-15T06:15:07Z")
We played a fun game at a restaurant once. At the time of billing, 5 cards were given to the waiter. The one that gets picked had to pay 😝 ---
**Author:** ![Sreeharimkl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/sreeharimkl/32/18007_2.png) [@Sreeharimkl](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Sreeharimkl)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 06:22 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/12 "2023-07-15T06:22:35Z")
I’ve seen some similar videos on reels😁 ---
**Author:** ![yagnesh01](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/yagnesh01/32/14597_2.png) [@yagnesh01](https://community.jupiter.money/u/yagnesh01)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 06:23 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/13 "2023-07-15T06:23:07Z")
I put a stop to it in my circle. The system was rigged. My card always got picked 😡 ---
**Author:** ![Aswin\_Benny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/aswin_benny/32/13053_2.png) [@Aswin\_Benny](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Aswin_Benny)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 06:35 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/14 "2023-07-15T06:35:03Z")
Happens when you have an attractive card design 😂 BTW jupiter could make this as an ad. Waiter always picks jupiter DC, it’s attractive 😅 ---
**Author:** ![Smart](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/smart/32/18128_2.png) [@Smart](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Smart)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 16:41 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/15 "2023-07-15T16:41:18Z")
What about the one friend who takes months to pay back? ---
**Author:** ![Aswin\_Benny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/aswin_benny/32/13053_2.png) [@Aswin\_Benny](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Aswin_Benny)\ **Post date:** [15 July 2023 16:55 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/16 "2023-07-15T16:55:03Z")
We don’t do that much spends. So it won’t be an issue . 😅 ---
**Author:** ![Shawnpinto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/shawnpinto/32/7656_2.png) [@Shawnpinto](https://community.jupiter.money/u/Shawnpinto)\ **Post date:** [24 July 2023 10:06 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/17 "2023-07-24T10:06:29Z")
Maybe try a nudge or two during candid situations. It’s the timing! If it’s a no even after that, you can send requests. Though that’s the last option 😅 ---
**Author:** ![alexnazy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex020/user_avatar/community.jupiter.money/alexnazy/32/18797_2.png) [@alexnazy](https://community.jupiter.money/u/alexnazy)\ **Post date:** [22 August 2023 12:17 UTC](https://community.jupiter.money/t/poll-money-matters-with-mates-how-do-you-handle-the-bill-showdown/47777/18 "2023-08-22T12:17:30Z")
This is interesting. I’ll try this on my next friends get together. Thanks. 😉